seemed pretty legit so i signed them and sent them back. a day later i get a warning from them that they needed these papers signed and the proof of funds letter sent in or the were gonna cancel the deal. i re-sent them, and told them that my financer was out of the country at the moment and due back in 2 days and i asked that they hold off until then. they sent me back a letter that said that they got only 1/2 of the paperwork i sent back to them and they demanded the other half or they were gonna cancel the deal. well, i had my lawyer send them back again. this time i got a letter that said they got only 1/2 of them and this document was the wrong one anyway, and if i did not send them the right one, they were gonna cancel the deal. i sent them a letter stating that they need to send me the right ones and from now on, they can deal with my lawyer. after several attempts to get them to understand that they need to converse with my lawyer, they started talking to him. they made several threats about cancelling the deal. we got all the necessary paperwork into them as requested, and they still accused us of not having what they needed and once again threatened to cancel the deal. i finally ad my lawyer talk with their lawyer out of new york city and we got everything into them as requested including the proof of funds letter and the 1/2 documents that they said they got. we had to send them certified mail just to make sure that they got them. after they got all of the papers they wanted, the deposit check and everything, they cancelled the sale and told us it was because we failed to get them everything they needed within the required 2 days after the sale. they later resold the property on hubzu at a $4000 loss in compared to what i offered them. even my lawyer said to never deal with them again because they were the biggest ******** he has ever dealt with. he actually told me that if i buy another house from them, that i need to find a different lawyer to work with them. 

Is the contractor threatening to lien the house?

Sloppy records threaten the legimacy and consequently the protective benefits of the LLC. 

Have a heart-to-heart about her fears and concerns, and then address them in a way that makes her feel like her identity as a 'helper' is not being threatened.

They don't provide tax documents on time, which cause significant headaches. they don't provide proof of cost mitigation studies unless you threaten to sue.I am a seasoned investor and I got duped in their flowery talk.

Then all the non-elderly people who need care would not be able to get them, resulting in severe rationing and non-serious illness that's treatable is now life-threatening. 

They sent me some ESA paperwork the next day that looked pretty bogus, probably downloaded from the internet that morning, and I replied with an eviction notice.They threatened hiring a lawyer, which I welcomed.

Tenants threaten to sue all the time.

Hello BP,I am looking for advice on how to handle a tenant that has failed to satisfy the terms of the lease and is now threatening legal action for repayment of rent paid and potentially moving costs due to safety concerns. 

So we have to make sure they are offering at least market rate  Often with that cut-taking agency, we've had to threaten eviction, and even file, to get them to increase rent to market rate on renewals.