But here, seems that anyone who can brush teeth can give advice on your back pain.

This is a business.Gotta cut your teeth in this business, or it will cut you, and your wallet.

The victim (if innocent of criminal activity) is not the one "engaging in violence".Based on the information posted here there's no evidence whatsoever the victim was engaged in any of that. 

Currently it is 1:15 am and we just put our daughter down for the 3rd time tonight (cutting teeth).

I won’t bury my head in the sand & quit doing business whatsoever.

Most "investors" I meet at local meet ups have never gotten started because they are waiting for that perfect property to appear where it is turn-key, under market value, and will produce $200 p/door and at least 15% COC ROI and they do not need to do anything and can just lay on the beach and collect monthly checks.The thing to me is that you need to hit consecutive singles and grind your teeth in order to get that home run ball.

The middle market here is doing well, and there are plenty of $50k to $75k base-hit deals to cut your teeth on.  

Just because wealthy people drive around in pink cars doesn't mean that it has any bearing whatsoever on being wealthy. 

Essentially, I’m trying to make working towards my goal a daily subconscious habit like bathing/brushing your teeth/exercising/or whatever you do daily!

You present no data whatsoever, just a gut feeling that my public data MUST be wrong and urban poor MUST be taking your money!