I did not realize the that the office I join may offer back office support. I

It is great to read about everyone's experiences and the support is super inspiring :) For those saying we should build more reserves, technically our bank is about 23k, we just figure with the sale of our house at 12k and expected up front cost of the prospective first duplex being only around 10k we will have enough reserves.

The amount of support is amazing. 

From what you shared, it seams like your fiancé’s lack of support in real estate is only part of an overall problem with support. I

Thank you all so much for your support, I found my agent and mortgage broker through BP forums.

You don't need to know what the emotional support is for, but you should be able to confirm it is legit. 

I am slowly building my team of local support. I

I'd prefer someone I can get access to in person, esp. as many credit unions have fairly primitive online support.- Is a bank or credit union really the best way to go for conventional lending?

Thanks for your kind words and support I would like you to send me any information on banks/lender that could help pull some of my money back out of this deal.

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