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Taxes, costs, eviction complexity, etc are going to be a much bigger factor in your success than anything else.

I'm starting out doing redeemable tax deeds and going to auctions where everybody has "bigger pockets" than I do.

Or have a friend guide you and start off bigger.

Most of the regular posters here on Bigger Pockets have a negative view of Sub2, especially after a couple of individuals spammed the site to promote their training.There was already a negative view of Sub2 on Bigger Pockets due to most of the regular posters did their deals in a different manner therefore, as is human nature anything out of our own personal preference can look mighty sinister. 

I enjoy helping Bigger Pockets members save time and money.Thanks Jay, I may get in touch!

I'm wondering if I should build out the house to sold comps valuation (bigger more expensive house chasing equity valuation) ORShould I build just enough of a nice mountain cottage for best cashflow.

It is surprisingly easy to manage out of state and if you want more tips on how, check out Bigger Pockets book "30 Day Stay" on Mid Term Rentals. 

Quit nickel and dime'ing it, put more money in better/bigger deals.

As you gain experience and tackle even bigger projects, you'll realize that what once seemed like a mammoth deal becomes totally doable.When it's crunch time, there is no room for improvisation.