While our stories vary slightly, a clear pattern emerged. 

Don't make your life more complicated than it has to be.

Originally posted by @Jene Goshay:I looking for some suggestions on security and monitor systems for my rehab projects.Something I can watch from my smartphone that will monitor any break-ins, check(watch) contractors, and video record whos going in and out of my projects while I am away.

@Ellis Moyewe really don't know a lot about this situation since there aren't many details in your post... but i don't think this makes any sense for anyone involved here...if it's a flip that's not selling, refinancing may not solve your problem and allow you to pay back the HML in fulland typically a sub to buyer wants a low interest rate... and if you refinance now you won't be getting a low interest rate, you'll just be getting whatever the market offers.and finally.... the vast majority of loans are NOT assumable. 

I find that a lot of people don't recommend you go out there first.

The IRS could apply this doctrine if it appears that the series of transactions are structured primarily to achieve a specific tax outcome, such as avoiding taxes.Regarding the 1031 exchange, while in-laws are not considered related parties, the transaction could still be scrutinized due to the complexity and nature of the other transactions involved.

A hybrid approach could work best: start with a cash-flowing Texas rental while saving for a Long Island house hack later.

The reality is, while house hacking can be a fantastic way to build wealth, it’s not always as simple as it seems.

I also don't think VRBO cares either.

You pay a bit more, but you get exactly what you want and don't have to worry about maintenance for a while which is obviously a savings.I live in the Woodlands, so considering the location of my home and rental property, I'd ideally like to build this in the area of The Woodlands, Conroe, Spring, Tomball, Klein, or Cypress.