You all are right - I wont go the public shaming route - it does give a hint of satisfaction to think about it - as I've stated a few local area sports bars have done this with great success when things are damaged or stolen.I just got off the phone with an old college friend that has been an attorney in the Marine Corp JAG division. 

For me, I grew up with a high emphasis on sports and school. 

Also if my wife wants to go to the spa or I want to go drop cash at a sporting event its not even a question, we go do it and I do not care what she spent as she earned it, saved it and manages her money well. 

Boost Mobile, MetroPCS, SimpleMobile, etc.)Fried Chicken spots Barbershops with bars in the windowStorefront Sports BarsStorefront ChurchesAny business with bulletproof glass between the cashier and the customers

Person A may have taken family vacations each year and travelled, paid for their kids college, splurged on a pool at their house, had a fun sports car, etc. while person B stayed home eating ramen noodles.

Self-Growth (reading, learning, networking), Family, Fitness, Sports, Traveling4.

There are plenty of people who own firearms for sport and protection.

Today, we are happy have 3 adorable kids who I coach in several sports have opened our house to fostering and have 18 doors and plan on having 20+ by year end, with only $200k in debt. 

Do you have yachts and sports cars?

Many people who are dismayed by their college experience majored in crap like psychology, sports management, history, eastern european literature or some crap that won't land them a good job.