You're asking for his knowledge and guidance but unwilling to pay. 

If you are unwilling to work and unwilling to be beaten down repeatedly, wholesaling will not be right for you.In general, to be successful in life, you need to focus on playing the long game.  

Details:It's a 21yo house in a suburban development outside of Syracuse.4/3.5 1767SQFTShe owes 90,000He offered 96,000I amended to purchase at 93,000 (3,000 assignment fee)He is unwilling to pay sellers closing costs.Trouble is, she's my friend and she is seriously stressing about the whole thing.

The buyer was unwilling to go up any higher.

Of course the IRS would never find them to be fraudulent because they were unwilling to investigate.

If she’s unwilling, I’d think hard about whether that’s someone you wanna be with long term and go from there

Now, I'm exhausted posting to wholesalers, nothing personal, but most have attitude, personality and/or sociopathic trait disorders, unwilling to learn, self centered, self absorbed, lazy, looking for a fast buck having the audacity of calling themselves real estate investors or even business people when they follow the guru track of using a sale contract, either that or, probably like yourself Andrea, you or they just got caught up in something you or they aren't really aware of.

The conventional bank that I used to acquire the property is unwilling to fund the construction of the space since they have reached the limit on loan to cost.

This only added to my opinion on how most people can't figure it out, or are unwilling to take the risk where if they put in all their effort they would not fail in the least.I'm not saying the LOC's from these HML's are the solution.

However, this may not be possible if the seller is unwilling to negotiate.