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2 August 2021 | 29 replies
Phrasing it that way allows you to just start a conversation and uncover their motivation, or lack thereof.
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3 May 2023 | 1572 replies
Of course, I had done some digging in advance, since I did uncover that they lived in a place they owned; I initially suspected they might be ready for foreclosure, but no lawsuit (PA is judicial) had yet been filed at the county courthouse.