It's literally a business marriage and as you know the divorce rate is north of 50% for regular marriages.

Everything I can find on HUD.gov or otherwise with google defines immediate family as: (by blood, in-law, or marriage) parent, child, or sibling -- or spouse of any of these.

Sure, people call her a hero, but as far as money talks, apparently heroes work cheap in America.This would be hurting my marriage if I wasn't using this time to work on our properties.

About a year later, I was in the midst of a major life crisis; My dad had just passed away and shortly after my marriage was abruptly ending.

When you have a major life event (e.g. marriage, new child, divorce, etc.), the best practice is to revisit your estate planning to make sure it lines up to your current life situation. 

I would greatly appreciate any advice or questions I should be prepared to ask tomorrow.Wishing all of the BP family well during these unique times.This asset is going to have to be declared on your friend's Marriage Balance Sheet.

Marriage counseling. :)Option B: See if your current mortgage is assumable.

I'd think you're starting off on the wrong foot thinking along these lines unless there is a agreement and significant assets in play that others may be entitled to, such as children prior to the marriage.

This assumes that things with your boyfriend are copacetic and that marriage is going to happen, but if so, then why don't you buy a new home with an FHA loan, then turn your boyfriends home into the rental property.

Just like a marriage, the guy has to realize he is going to lose if she holds her ground and HAS TO HAVE her way.