If your QI holds your proceeds until the end of your exchange period you will not receive the funds and recognize the gain until 2019 if your accountant reports it on 2018 tax return with installment sale treatment. 

And rehab and treatment of back willbe more expensive than not having a job.

You are correct that the tax treatment of Airbnb business (emphasis on "business") is distinct from other forms of real estate investment - and that you should get clarity about that to incorporate into tax planning and investment ROI analysis.

Rul. 8429039, provided that a two-year holding period is sufficient to ensure treatment as a tax-free exchange (all other tests being met). 

Now 1031 exchanges may only be done on investment real estate.What still has to shake out is guidance on what the difference is between equipment and fixtures that remain personal property and so are excluded from the 1031 exchange, and equipment and fixtures that become part of the real estate itself and so eligible for 1031 treatment.

For example, repeals of the current annual property tax increase limits, or even limits on rental income or its income tax treatment in the state. 

he even told me tge kind of sickness its cancer 

Have a termite inspector evaluate it and he can give you an idea of the extent of the damage and can give recommendations on treatment.

Vacancies are like cancer in RE business and should be treated as such.

I am unable to leave my job and bridge any time until I can make a change because I have severe ulcerative colitis that requires a very close eye and my wife recently had her thyroid removed due to cancer.