Hence why I decided that you are a con man, a charlatan, and are attempting to obtain leads. 

@Jason Eyerly I spoke metaphorically when I said "take it like a man" as opposed to acting like a weasel or a snake to dupe some unsuspecting "buyer" to overcome a loss.

This brings me back to another excerpt from this book I'm reading called The University of Success, and in this little passage there was a short story about a man.

. :) "Give a man a fish, he eats for a day, teach him how to fish and he eats forever."

Oh man, a business owner never wants to hear that.  

A true wholesaler will add value in that they locate and contract a deal with a spread even larger than what a rehabber needs so that there is room to mark it up for their fee and still deliver it to the rehab buyer with a spread that makes sense.My advice to you is to spend more of your time forming relationships with those who can get you deals (REO brokers, short sale list agents, etc) and get the deals directly on your own, skipping the middle man.

I learned to be a man as a teenager through books.

@Jonathan Twombly -  thanks for the mention@Achi Adamit Although I have no immediate solution for you, I do invest in Binghamton (strictly students) and understand the challenges of manaing a property manager remotely.

Sometimes they are quite difficult to deal with as most section 8 tenants know the rental laws backwards and forwards, but don't know how to get the 85 dollar rent check to you on time, or have every excuse known to man as to why they can't pay right now.  

Hey @Victor Nkhoma, welcome to the BP community man!