I am not making any accusations here, just presenting the facts as I found them.

We play mexican train (dominos) until my husband gets mad that I always win and accuses me of cheating.  

(But do NOT bend those limits lest you end up discriminating or being accused of discrimination. 

I just about went through the roof when she accused me of not being "fair".  

You might want to back up a little and not accused the HML because you are the one needing the funds and bad news travel fast if he put the word out on the streets you might not get anyone to help you.Joe Gore

I was not posting anything false, just told him to be cautious, so if you disagree greate, but do not accuse me of posting disinformation.

And now come the fun part if someone I hope not damages your property are you going to false accuse everyone who gave you a copy of their license.Joe Gore

Whatever process you decide will lead you to the "best" candidate should be put in writing so you can't be accused of discrimination later.You are not required by law to process them in the order they are received and then take the first qualified applicant (meaning the first applicant who meets your minimum qualifications).

You have the right to ask questions too, such as: EXACTLY what law or regulation are you accusing me of violating?

Obviously, there is the potential that everything goes well with sharing, until one tenant accuses the other of stealing or damaging something, and then you have a problem on your hands.