If it does not fit your criteria or if they are unreasonable put them on the back burner and follow up with them in a couple weeks to see what they are up too. 

I think the reason is that your refi bank prefers not giving you a big, fat check, which makes them very nervous.

Expect at least a week of delay on the initial process.The bank will counter after there dd, just keep following up and keep this one on the back burner.  

When i quit I was making a fat paycheck running a 5 state sales territory for a large specialty manufacturing company. 

I guess this will need to go on the back burner.

There's not much the lenders can do based on my preliminary estimated numbers so until I have the formal pro-forma data from the feasibility analysis, that will have to go on the back burner.

got it same thing goes though you don't hand over the keys to the castle until you have your dough.. you are learning this one now.and you are also learning that signing docs does not mean anything if the money does not follow.good luck with it.. and you will get over it... good luckAnd yes with commercial you want to think the buyers are more professional for sure.but its not over till the fat lady sings and you have wired funds into escrow.

There's not much the lenders can do based on my preliminary estimated numbers so until I have the formal pro-forma data from the feasibility analysis, that will have to go on the back burner.

For example if you were very overweight, you may crack some fat jokes about yourself.

My suggestion is to get a boiler service guy (probably a smaller company)  out and get an estimate of what it will cost to repair the boiler so she has heat.. you don't need it working like new just want it to heat..Then you can make more decisions...OK My knowledge on boilers is not great but basically you have a oil or gas burner, a pump and pump motor,  piping and zone valves, and pressure gauge.... so, thermostat calls for heat then boiler fires up and tries to heat water .... then temp of water high enough to heat with.... then pump kicks on to circulate water to and from boiler...