Cash-flow for us pays all the bills and funds our lifestyle.  

That's a leverage to personal lifestyle debate.

That is a beautiful thing for a single income household but is nowhere near enough to reach the financial security and lifestyle I would like for my family. 

It’s a pretty straight forward move.I used to do stuff like that but I’m a long way from that lifestyle.

Lifestyles Unlimited--lots of success stories there too, but expensive....Sumrok and Davis and many others came out of Lifestyles program.Rod Khalif- out of Florida.Jake and Gino- Joe Fairless- Best Ever ConferencePlenty of people on BP have been to one or more of these seminars and can give you the scoop probably on any of them.

We prioritize OUR lifestyle and free time over income.   

Thanks for emphasizing some of those other benefits to my overall net worth as well as lifestyle considerations as well! 

Both of those are lower risk ways of getting started.Maybe your goals or lifestyle don't permit them - but they're great options.

If she just moved in, I'd tell her clearly this isn't going to work out (you can mention quiet enjoyment and her being loud at 2 am, but I'd leave other parts suck as her choice for lifestyle out of it-ie having 3 different guys spend the night) and remind her of the lease.

What kind of lifestyle do you want to life - ramen noodles and OJ every night?