If you're in any job that involves selling anything and ingratiating yourself to anyone, authenticity plays a distant fourth to likeability, likeability, likeability, in that order, and people like people who are like them, especially in Anglo-American culture. 

Firstly, Greenville has undergone significant revitalization efforts over the past few decades, transforming its downtown into a vibrant and walkable area filled with restaurants, shops, and cultural attractions.

I have been able to find quality sponsors this way, not to mention all of the education and other benefits of joining a Community.I recommend you find a Community that has a culture that matches your personality - and join several and try them out. 

Freedom to show my children the cultures of the world and to teach them by example the principles of legacy and generosity.  

. - Landlord friendly state- rental culture amongst residents - super low rental inventory.  

Culture.

Those migrating from expensive cities such as New York, San Francisco, Seattle, etc will still probably desire all the amenities of a major city and seek to relocate to a smaller city that still has major sports teams, great food culture, transit options etc. 

Durham has great culture and vibrancy.

A culture of consequences is needed.

Yes, saving in a tin jar is not ideal, but for kids its important to teach the concept of delayed gratification (it's so missed in today's culture).