While my husband and his ex make a similar income and do not exchange child support due to us pointing that out in court a couple of years ago, she actively request all financial documents that she possibly can and examines our taxes, etc. 

No matter whether you are looking at commercial or residential property, the deals that “pencil out” at OFFERING price are few and far between these days.  

First time on this forum, and just introduced through two books I just read by David Greene and Brandon Turner.  

I don't think its as easy as people make it out to be. 

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What is this strategy called?

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When reaching out to experienced wholesalers, show that you’re ready to contribute.

Climate refuge is a genuine priority for many and a reasonably distanced retreat or refuge has perhaps never been more valuable?

I would definitely check Dunn and Bradstreet for any open lines of credit, liens, judgements and the like.