However, in my market house values were outpacing my ability to save sufficient funds. 

The location being Las Cruces, New Mexico was yet another sucker punch that has negatively impacted my ability to do much with the property.

Getting your real estate license can be helpful, especially if you want direct access to listings, market data, and the ability to save on agent commissions.

I don't have the skill set YET to gauge rehab costs and try to BRRRR, but I'd like to learn.This is definitely a choice but my option is that you will do better if you focus on duplexes and cherry-pick a few SFRs as you come across them.As for your Strengths, it sounds like you have an excellent ability to save and your ability to bulk analyze data will serve you well to identify big-picture areas, property types, and characteristics to focus on.I like that you realize the first investment will not be your best investment.

Your impressive loss of weight and ability to regenerate hair is truly impressive!

My purpose behind my decision to pursue REI is to gain financial freedom for wife and I, my future family as well as have the ability to make sure my parents are well taken care of once they reach the retirement age.If I had to label myself I’d want to be known as an open minded rental investor for all long term, mid term and short term investing, with the occasional flip for quicker capitol to put back into another rental.

That could be market knowledge, ability to rehab a property - something that can give you an edge over other experienced RE professionals in the market and asset class you are working in. 

How trustworthy are they and are you confident in their ability to help?

The numbers are trashy now but with the right approach, resources and ability you will come out on top.

It is solid to look at deals that are off-market and know that the ability to buy it at a price and either hold it or sell it will be coming with less competition on the purchase and more upside.