It's usually not that hard to tell, there is still a little lag and it can sound weird if you interrupt it halfway.

But we were able to resolve conflict pretty well and still remain really good friends today.I would say if you're going to find a partner, you really want to find somebody that you get along really well and who also knows how to work hard and resolve conflict well.

Because, for instance, if I am flipping a couple of properties and I am in the middle of the rehab, but it will take a couple of months for them to get finished and sold, I may be paying $4000 on hard money debt payments per month, and if that debt is included in whether or not I will qualify for a refinance, then I may not qualify.

I have no idea why folks spend a ton of hard earned money on these "guru"  classes.

Also, a few private lenders or hard money lenders might have some more creative terms for multifamily, especially if you're open to considering that route.

As far as benefit to the seller goes, @Matthew Paul I think you are probably right on the money and regardless of whether they would have preferred to stay in this house rather than move, it is likely providing them some excellent cash flow; and I'd be hard-pressed to come up with a deal that serves both parties better than the current situation. 

I hope people get the point that you worked hard to earn the $2 mil and invested it wisely, you didn’t just get rich overnight from real estate.

If you can't shape yourself into a solution maker the cold hard truth is this isn't for you and you'd be better focusing time and energy elsewhere. 

Take the initial investment out then keep the machine going.I know it seems like alot but it's really not that hard to accomplish.  

If you find a seller willing to carry a large note, that business is likely going to need a significant time and money investment from you post-close.Lesson 3️⃣ - It’s not that hard to be a good buyer.