If you get to a pound t where it's a C grade rental or better you can start to get decent management. 

I am getting married next October and want to be able to hang out with my future children but it is a little hard to visualize that since I don't have kids and am not married yet.What book would you recommend to read next to really pound my why into my head?

My landlords usually charge $50/month for a big dog over 40 pounds (or for any dog) and $25/month for cats or very small dogs.

I was a beekeeper in the past and had a business removing bees from unwanted areas as well as working with swarming bees. 

Instead of cutting your market in half, I recommend finding ways to allow pets while reducing risk and increasing income.I allow fish tanks up to 20 gallons (275 pounds). 

Or are these investors so upset that they just want a pound of flesh and do not want to give them the chance to work out of it and just punish them . ??

Not to mention, you've now become reliant on a 3rd party for income streams, and yes, they do occasionally run short of funding and, yes, they have no compunction with telling you to pound sand until they get new funding. 

When the litigant attorney heard this, shouted "oh no, we're screwed" and pounded on the table.

Invasion of privacy, unclean and rude house members, maybe if they do drugs or smoke or are party animals, unwanted friends of theirs visiting at odd hours, clashes of personality

Train with the one thing you have with you all the time FIRST and then go to external weapons if you like.I hear all the time from some 400 pound fat guy they have a gun and go to the range once a week but if they walk more than 20 feet they get out of breath.