I need to decide what color to repaint/reface the cabinets. 2.

3) Aside from washing the walls or getting a full repaint quoted, would it be reasonable to deduct the expected cost of "Kilz" paint/odor sealant brand for effected square footage?

It’ll cost you 5-10k to repaint and clean them up.

As for the painting, put it in writing that she is not allowed to do that and she will be charged to have it repainted when she leaves. 

All the trim needs to be repainted and recaulked everywhere.

We've been in communication about getting everything repaired until they found out the contractor said it would take approximately 4 to 6 weeks to fix the spots of drywall that have been removed and to repaint, etc, and now their responses to my texts are less and less.

My tenant of 1 year just moved out recently (work transfer), but during the move-out inspection we found that one of the 10X10 bedroom has all four side of the wall covered in screw holes from the time they used it as a computer room (I believe the holes were from the sound deadening foam that they used to attach to the wall) So I was wondering what would seem to be a fairly reasonable cost to be deducted from their Security Deposit for the excessive holes and needing to repaint.

They will try new flooring, base boards, killz primer with repaint, and an ozone generator.

Additionally, we repainted the interior of the house, giving it a fresh, modern look.

I’ve gotten quotes ranging from $6,500-$12k to repair and waterproof the exterior walls, plus there's the added cost of repairing and repainting the inside walls.