Additionally, I'd suggest joining CT RE groups on Facebook.

Pay attention to @Jonathan Greene; slow down, sell a couple, two-three, take a deep breath, take the family on a vacation, and regroup.  

I co-host the women’s online RE group and am happy to connect with you and answer questions, just DM me.

You can find them in local Facebook re groups and at re meetups. 

Posting on a local RE group in that area might be a good option as well to get recommendations from others

her and her husband both retired from their day jobs and have all these gorgeous renovated SFRs. the key was that they got better and better at BRRRing and the nest egg grew just a little bit with each cashout/refi, so they could do bigger/better deals, then multiple deals at once. this obviously took time, but they're getting ALL the perks of REI: debt paydown, appreciation, tax benefits, cashflow, the opportunity to provide beautiful safe housing in the city they live in... if you BRRR'd your way to a few STRs instead of LTRs, you could probably arrive at that 7k/mo number pretty quick. also consider BRRRing to MTRs. gator lending is short-term / transational lending, usually to wholesalers for deposits. pace morby has a course on it. most people i'm sure take the course, do nothing with the information, make no money, then complain and say the course didn't work lol. but i do know tons of people actually make great money gator lending.flips obviously work too but you usually LOSE money on the first one, break even if you're fortunate... it's very active work too, so doing flips while you're still working full time, idk, not a fan personally. you'd have to KEEP flipping to KEEP making 7k/mo, vs with BRRRing you'll eventually get to that 7k/mo and can stop or regroup.

Even in Silicon Valley MFHs prices do not appreciate as much as SFHs. 401K is meant for your golden years often used for a major medical bill not covered by your insurance.So you want to jump in at market peak it will not regroup until next housing cycle facing tax consequence now?

@Christian Dozier best place to start is local RE groups, find a wholesaler or someone in acquisitions and figure out how to add enough value to take you under their wing.

I will be relocating to NE Florida in the near future and looking forward to joining RE groups and meets.

Andrew,Miami is a very expensive place to build/renovate in some cases it's worth looking at the total funds expected to be used and regroup.