We're open to other strategies, but believe that sounds the most ideal so far. 

In the meantime I would love to have some helpful information or ideas to share with the buyers when we meet and ideally an agreement/contract we could fill out together once new terms are agreed to and then share that with the attorney so he could draft up the formal instrument for recording.If you have experience with this type of scenario, I’d love to hear any recommendations you have or any helpful resources you could point me to for the appropriate paperwork.Under foreclosure laws, you have to send appropriate notices and try to work with the borrower and offer a loan mod before foreclosure anyway. 

You probably don't want to live next door to tenants; ideally, they would just think you're also renters. 

I’d rate this as a 3 out of 10 in terms of the best time to sell—it’s not the worst, but it’s not ideal either.Hope this helps!

Ideally you find something within a 30 minute drive.

That type of property is ideal. 

Ideally we would love to live in my childhood home.

The refinance step is where you pull out this equity, typically in the form of a cash-out refinance.Here’s how it works:You refinance the property at its new appraised value (after rehab and renting).You take out a new loan based on that increased value, ideally for the full amount or more than what you originally paid for the property.The goal is to pull out enough money to cover the cost of the original purchase and rehab (or even more, depending on the property’s appreciation).This allows you to recover your initial investment, which can then be used to buy your next property.5.

Also, before you buy another property you'll want to determine your ideal next property - meaning, will it be a "rent ready" house, a major renovation project, or somewhere in between.

We do a lot of the work ourselves and so within 2 hours of Needham is ideal.