Sound contract management alleviates a lot of the concerns you raised.

The idea of funneling debt towards an LLC will help alleviate the DTI on your personal name and free you up to buy the home that you are wanting.Good luck in taking a look, its a fun problem to have.

And in some cases, hiring a property manager alleviates the hassle of dealing with delinquent tenants.

Having a property manager is the solution for dealing with matters that occur with problematic elements of our population, and in alleviating yourself from these kind of stressful encounters.  

You'd have to understand WHY it's not selling now, and that this reasoning would be alleviated at that time.

However, I've seen other syndicates use hard money loans to cover and also sponsors that have created a new side car to add capital until relief can be alleviated so that investors are whole.

It seems as if you have at least 2 children, id suggest looking at duplexes with 3 beds, or a larger home with an ADU (Attached dwelling unit) that you can rent to alleviate the mortgage payments. 

I really want to be as hands odd as possible with operations so I’m willing to spend on a good property management company (mentioning again I’m not as concerned about cash flow today)any insight into markets you are aware of with good alleviation outlook over next 10 years?

I guess it just all depends on having a system in place to alleviate issues that will come down the road.

Property managers still have to be managed, so they don’t alleviate your interaction with your properties.