A good ol fashion phone call or house visit would probably solve your problem. 

I visited the site last week and dirt has been broken but nothing vertical yet. 

Rare do I hear of recommendations but I do hear people asking.I would think in any big city you think about, a visit to a local NARPEM meeting or 2-3 visits would be a great idea. 

The goal starting off is a place that my family enjoys visiting and renting the rest of the time. 

from my advice rural properties and developments aren't successful and you are climbing an uphill battle. sounds a little niche. we focus on developing and not reinventing the wheel. if this is truly what you want to focus all your time and energy on then visit the closest 5-10 of these that look like the ones you are interested and ask if they'd expand or build a secondary one. do a lot of research before you just take action 

Your visits to the home seem to upset him, if you don't enter his room and your son is living there depending on the lease wording there probably isn't a violation.

I actually enjoy visiting there from time to time. 

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