There are some that are better at RE than others, but I am certain it is nowhere as tough as quantum physics, Calculus, etc...so I get confused at people saying they are hear to help, teach and mentor yet I read many posts of people pretending to help but their "advice" is laced with condescension, arrogance, finger-wagging, etc.  

Don't Read it....But in reality, I think what you are secretly wishing for is the absence of Wholesalers and Realtors® in your "Real Life"... so you PRETEND it could be that way on your Online one.May I respectfully suggest that you.. instead of critique or criticize the way others do business... you sit down and listen or read?? 

They pretend to be the actual buyer.

Keep the emotion down and pretend I hired you to get to the bottom of this.