Yeah you seem very nervous from your responses, just try to relax just go with your gut , practice what your gonna say to your fiancé, dog, cat, sister, brother whoever just someone so you can get the words out that u need to say.

I find it more relaxing then an argument.

Natural and relaxed vs a sales call script...

I get to sit back, relax, have a drink and enjoy a steak that someone else prepares, brings to me, and cleans up after me.