In my experience, tradesmen respect relationships that offer future opportunities. 

It sounds like you have a differing opinion which I respect.

I have done everything the right way, the ethical way, treating people with honesty and respect.. treating the market and the process with respect (not cutting any corners, permits, etc) and it seems like I have been beaten down at every turn and now I am at risk of losing everything I have worked hard for years to obtain. 

He’s a businessman and he’s building a business and a brand.I’m not drinking any coolaid, but I respect Pace a lot and what he’s done and doing.

If you were competing against us... a friendly respectful, professional-behaving couple that didn't monthly harass them like a desperate maniac you will lose.4.

Try to be accommodating to their schedule, try not to make a mess, try to respect their right to quiet enjoyment.

IMO, it is the lack of education (not schooling, but how to clean, teach your kids to respect their living space, etc) that causes the issues, and you have that whether it's a single adult household paying with a voucher, or a two adult household, who both have low pay jobs. 

Always said I respect whatever they think and feel, the product is theirs and they had so much time to decide, to sell it to me or not.

It’s one of the tallest and most respected cliffs on the east coast and people drive from far away to climb there. 

A few things you could consider:House Rules: Make sure you have clear, firm house rules for your STR guests regarding noise levels, shared spaces, and respecting the privacy of your LTR tenants.Noise-cancelling measures: You could invest in things like soundproofing the walls or adding landscaping (like thick bushes) along the privacy fence to further dampen any noise between units.Separate Access: If possible, ensure that the STR and LTR tenants have separate entrances or parking areas.