Let me guess, older gray haired gentleman posting in those groups?

Everything from the way we dress, style our hair, what car we drive, even the food we eat.

Keeping your hair versus losing your hair?

He's probably pulling his hair out trying to address all the site snafus and growing what he has, having local BP Chapters is another business but would certainly tie in.

I don't think that hair splitting over 'included' vs 'complementary' would change this in jurisdictions with similar laws.

Well I bought into "Mark Whittens: Flip houses like your hairs on fire" and through the course he explained a loophole to assigning Bank Owned REO's which is to get the property under contract in your LlLC's name and assign your LLC to your end buyer.

Some say to stay laser focused but the deals arent' falling my way and the birddogging isn't paying any bills, either! 

You can split hairs with princ/interest if you want, but the big deal here is recognizing the risk of these debts and planning to eliminate them!

Don't expect miracles, but you will start to figure out what you want to do (lots of ways to be successful in RE) I know it may seem almost impossible from where you are now, but you can and WILL do it if you believe in yourself enough and have the drive and energy to stay laser focused. 

I understanding getting the contract it's everything that follows is a scary pulling your hair out time.