Financeexaminer, I take offense to that reply.

Do Not Disturb OccupantIt is a criminal offense to trespass on this propertyThat is the warning on auction.com website.Also you will be surprised at the number of bidders that come out and you would very  lucky to get it for $60k  and these are the recent salesAddressDistanceProperty TypeSold priceSold dateBedBathSqft68 Lucas Ave, Kingston NY0.05Single-Family Home$66,25012/10/1432.51,52530 Navara St, Kingston NY0.65Single-Family Home$80,00003/04/152182317 Klingberg Ave, Kingston NY0.93Single-Family Home$57,00005/27/15211,056208 Downs St, Kingston NY1.34Single-Family Home$65,00005/18/153199365 Flatbush Ave, Kingston NY1.41Single-Family Home$65,00001/02/15311,59034 Andrew St, Kingston NY1.61Single-Family Home$79,00001/02/15311,27312 Clarendon Ave, Kingston NY1.65Single-Family Home$54,00001/13/151152920 Brewster St, Kingston NY1.69Single-Family Home$61,10001/22/15311,50029 W Chester St, Kingston NY1.76Single-Family Home$51,00005/07/15311,468132 1st Ave, Kingston NY2.24Single-Family Home$62,00006/02/1521740

If the courts turn it into a crimminal offense, then law enforcement could get involved.

I would go on the offense and let him know that you are going to pursue reimbursement for: x, x, and x.

Everyone always says oh your a slumlord, and I really don't like that and actually kinda take offense.

As to your comment about disconnecting utilities, every state I have looked into make it a criminal offense if you turn off any utilities, even if the tenant isn't paying you for them. 

Seriously, anything else is a criminal offense.

No offense @Moh Saidbut you should learn to use the search function here on BP and you should utilize Google. 

Not to be offensive, but why would they rely on you to bring them a cash buyer?

Don't take it personal or offensive, but, the fact is, if you had made better choices with regard to the wedding, honeymoon, cheaper rent, car payment, wherever those debts came from (excluding medical) then you could have bought your house pre-wedding and been living there right after the honeymoon.