I made some connections with a couple of syndicators, though they weren't meaningful.

So, if you're willing to offer guidance, connect for a mentorship opportunity, or simply engage in meaningful conversations, I would be incredibly grateful.

They do not provide meaningful oversight or guidance with respect to tax code compliance.A checkbook IRA LLC is an enhancement on the above structure that is generally more time and cost efficient for investors with a more diverse portfolio.

Would we jeopardize anything getting a mortgage and extracting capital to invest elsewhere?  

They do not provide meaningful oversight or guidance with respect to tax code compliance.A checkbook IRA LLC is an enhancement on the above structure that is generally more time and cost efficient for investors with a more diverse or interactive portfolio - such as rental property.

I don't really think that investors drive market values of Single Family homes in any meaningful way. 

When I started my career in 2007 (pre-financial crisis), the team I was on was targeting advisory groups that work with many family offices, all of whom were seeking real estate investment across asset classes.The biggest reason I think prices are so high and will remain high is because there is an overall housing shortage, there is limited land in areas people want to live in, there is zoning that mitigates the ability to add new supply in any meaningful way, and ultimately, it is the rise of forums like these, Instagram, all the gurus that have platforms now to sell their course to teach others how to make money in real estate.  

In the us beside a measly 5% non refundable deposit, and a few zoning bonuses, i haven’t found anything close to that, but i may be wrong.Are US developers really working without any meaningful incentive or garanties?

Have a meaningful conversation with them on what the seller’s pain points are and then see if you can make an offer that solves those problems using seller financing.

Since you and your wife have great jobs, cash flow shouldn't be needed as a meaningful part of your investment.