Can someone refer me to a real estate attorney that works with investors, fix & flip, buy & hold, and wholesalers in Fayetteville, NC preferably but in the Greater North Carolina Region will suffice, Raleigh/Durham etc....

Well, if it's your funds, a copy of your bank statement with sensitive information blacked out (like your account number) will usually suffice.

Before and after pictures along with all trails of communication - text, emails should suffice.

Would a quitclaim suffice for the remaining children?

Suffice to say that few note investors take into consideration how much it MAY cost if the borrower decides to fight foreclosure.

I have a video walk through so that can suffice if that’s not a good idea.

An attorney that specializes in business / entity formation will suffice.

If you need to push a less critical date 1-2 days and you still have contingencies in place normally an email will suffice, assuming all party’s are cooperative. 

Is there any benefit to me also having a personal umbrella policy, or should the LLC umbrella suffice? 

Suffice to say, they haven't been model tenants and we do not have a cordial relationship.I recently sent them an email and letter reiterating their obligations from the lease, specifically calling their attention to the move out cleaning checklist.