Everything I see for the northern VA area and beyond market is just so unattainable; it seems like unless you have a down payment, that is way way way more than 20 percent, there is no way to get any positive cash flow.

Those willing to go beyond that could be good partners for real estate investors.Traditional banks/Local Banks and non-bank lenders - If they are a portfolio lender, meaning they actually hold on to the loan and don't just collect your payment, then they have the ability to be flexible.

I understand the BRRRR method is not all that it used to be in the past years, but given that I have a lot of capital to play with, I figured that I would still be able to find ways to make it applicable.Does anybody have any suggestions/tips for me?

As already mentioned, you could sell via seller financing to lower AGI, as all you would have to claim is the payment income - until balloon payment received.Did know an investor that had 14 properties paid off and he moved into one every two years to then sell with the $250k single exemption.

I have the opportunity to help a family member be part of a joint venture with them putting the down payment down.  

The seller would need to include a clause saying what you CAN'T do, which is what a pre-payment penalty would address. 

@Timothy Frazier Yes, the only reason to use HML as a down payment is if the property is "mostly turnkey" AND you don't have the funds to renovate AND you have strong CMA comps from a real estate agent that supports that the fact that you are buying a property that is under valued AND your renovations would push that so that you could refinance.

$50,000 available for Down Payment 

Some people make 4x the rent but squander their income on eating out, drinking, car payments, etc.

Quote from @Mathew Chacko: Quote from @Na Person:  I too was a little skeptical of sending a large cash payment to an unlicensed entity (1031 facilitators do not need a license).