I am expecting to sell the triplex for around 1.2 - 1.3 mil and there is about 500k in loan balance so there is up to 800k in equity.

In my eyes, it's fair as even though I'm fronting the capital, the split in equity is worth it as it gives me more time to run my other business, plus we can do things faster with two of us, plus at this point of my REI journey, I don't have the skills/experience (yet) that he does with the construction side and for him, he values not having to manage the finances.  

The three in personal name have increased substantially in equity, I was going to tap the equity and reappraise etc looking at 4-500k of additional equity, these currently have separate notes in the 1st position of 3.35 30yr fixed.

I know that I've already go about 50k in equity in the property but the last appraisal was before 18 new windows @ 20k were installed.

I have 200k + in equity in my primary but she doesn’t want to touch that either (I’d prefer not to as well).

My wife and I own 4.5M worth of RE and have about 1.75M in equity.

I feel stuck in a similar situation, I have $1M in equity in this house that I’m living in and renting the mother in law apt next to it , the problem of course is the 7-8% interest rates , have they not stopped the BRRRR technique in its tracks ?

Your dad built up almost 5 million in equity.

Some have more than $1 million in equity while others have less.4.

Thanks to our rise in equity, last year I refi’d our house out (just rate and term-no cash out) into a conventional 30-year with the same 2.75% interest rate, so that my VA entitlement could be fully restored as we don’t plan to live here forever, and could then use it on our future primary residence, while keeping this one as a rental.