That would unnecessarily gum up the works in consumer transactions.If you wanted confidentiality, you should have instructed the appraiser of that before he/she took the job.

I know you want to jump-start your real estate investments but it's way too premature at the moment. 

Used to be 6 month penalty for pre mature withdrawl.   

The lawsuit is premature unless you have appraisal/comps.

Second, they have the risk of you dying prematurely so they have to put enough money into a pool to make sure they can pay claims.

What woke me up to needing to do better was being diagnosed with MS late 2017 and having my first child that came 3 months premature that same year.

@Bradley BabineauxIf you wish to purchase property personally - you could take distribution from your IRA (subject to applicable taxes and penalties for premature distribution), and use it for a down payment.

While it may be premature to drive a stake in the ground... because I don't know what I don't know... my current interest/focus area is in multifamily investing.

The fact is that referrals here would be no better than google and would tend to gum up the works so to speak so we would not really be adding value by allowing them. 

Before you prematurely admit to defeat contact more banks and let them know your situations and see if they will work with you.With that there is much risk in dealing with leveraging multiple properties and that really depends on your risk tolerance.