Interesting article and I hate to be a Debbie Downer but what's the rate of their marriage lasting more then a few years?

I maintain separate accounts and I do not believe that sharing money equates to happiness and/or a successful marriage.

The property was in the deceased woman's family prior to the marriage.

Here are exemptions to Due on Sale(d) Exemption of specified transfers or dispositions With respect to a real property loan secured by a lien on residential real property containing less than five dwelling units, including a lien on the stock allocated to a dwelling unit in a cooperative housing corporation, or on a residential manufactured home, a lender may not exercise its option pursuant to a due-on-sale clause upon— (1) the creation of a lien or other encumbrance subordinate to the lender’s security instrument which does not relate to a transfer of rights of occupancy in the property; (2) the creation of a purchase money security interest for household appliances; (3) a transfer by devise, descent, or operation of law on the death of a joint tenant or tenant by the entirety; (4) the granting of a leasehold interest of three years or less not containing an option to purchase; (5) a transfer to a relative resulting from the death of a borrower; (6) a transfer where the spouse or children of the borrower become an owner of the property; (7) a transfer resulting from a decree of a dissolution of marriage, legal separation agreement, or from an incidental property settlement agreement, by which the spouse of the borrower becomes an owner of the property; (8) a transfer into an inter vivos trust in which the borrower is and remains a beneficiary and which does not relate to a transfer of rights of occupancy in the property; or (9) any other transfer or disposition described in regulations prescribed by the Federal Home Loan Bank Board.

Just like a divorce situation in a marriage.

@David Krulac I thought you were only allowed one FHA loan at a time unless relocated via job or marriage ect.?

I went through a divorce after a 25 year marriage of never ending money to the land of "no money, zero zilch".

Not to mention that "in a marriage or partnership" you have to convince both parties that this is the right place to put your money and efforts. 

One of my newer properties, the tenant has a common law marriage with the man that assaulted her.

I assume the property was acquired during the marriage, that's 50/50, then you can slug it out as to who did what.