Basically you have to make a decision to either buy a home to live in or rent a home to live in, disregarding the emotion that comes with homeownership for a moment, this can all be looked at from a purely financial lens in a standardized way that you would compare any two investment alternatives.  

She disregarded my request and has emailed me the signed lease.

Personal Capital encourage you to use the Advisors / Account managers but it is not an obligation hence you can disregard these messages. 

Disregard

A lot of new property owners disregard that second part.

You just have to minimize their impact if you can.For 1099 I am not disregarding them just commenting on the need for me to do the IRSs job in landlord role but not in the homeowner role.We mostly did work ourselves so I missed that these guys had to sign forms upfront therefor I don't have them.

This is terrible advice, because running personal expenses through the LLC is precisely the kind of conduct that courts look for when deciding whether to disregard the LLC - which, normally speaking, is a very unusual thing to do.)The reason that professional investors put each deal into a separate LLC is because they not only want to protect their personal assets that are outside the LLC, but they want to protect their different properties FROM EACH OTHER.If most of your wealth is tied up in properties, and the properties are all under the same LLC, you might as well not have an LLC.  

So you basically just disregarded the bulk of the opinions you got from experienced investors......?

And I have a funny feeling that is the actual main issue and source for so much anger, being disregarded and not of importance.

It was actually a property that a realtor emailed me when it came on the market and I disregarded it because it was overpriced.