Feel free to PM me or just ask here!

@Andrew Frishman - here is some food for thought to get you started: https://www.biggerpockets.com/member-blogs/11782/84402-how-to-evaluate-a-sponsor Feel free to DM me with any specific questions, I have invested in multiple deals as a LP and as a GP.

Best advice is to keep exploring aspects of the RE investing world and decide which feels right and best for what you want to pursue.

Anyways, I'd love to connect so feel free to hit me up!

Feel free to reach out if you have questions.

I know you are probably bummed about this and feel like you made a mistake, but if you can figure out how to hold this property and buy more properties and hold them then you will end up making significantly more money in the long run; you don't build a real estate portfolio by selling.

Anything you are wondering about, feel free to ask here!

Of course, there’s the option of holding onto these rentals, as they both cash flow about $400 a month each, but we’ve got what feels like adequate equity to scale up at this time.

Just as much as you might feel bad for the wife, how might you feel if it turned out she knew about all of it?

You've already put in some great thought, and with that ADU, you've got a lot of options.One thing to consider is starting with long-term tenants in the ADU for a bit and then transitioning it to a mid-term rental (MTR) down the line when you feel more comfortable.