This might be a long shot, but open communication can sometimes lead to unexpected solutions.While these steps may not guarantee a resolution, they could help you find a path that avoids foreclosure and allows you to relocate your family.

Having a clause for transparency on repairs and fees in your contract can help prevent unexpected charges, so you may want to discuss adding this with your PM.

Mostly worried that even if I find a place and the money, that I'll be making a big financial mistake and have little left to cover unexpected costs.

Be prepared for unexpected expenses by building up a reserve fund and being flexible with your options.

Recessed lighting, switches and outlets 

Add the outlet it’s universal and cheaper. 

Flexibility and persistence are key when navigating unexpected obstacles in real estate development.

Flexibility and persistence are key when navigating unexpected obstacles in real estate development.

Saving up a down payment will give you more flexibility and a buffer for unexpected costs.

I’ll double-check with the lender to make sure there aren’t any unexpected conditions tied to it.