Here is a good five minute bit from all in podcast discussing this topic https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8F5dV3K/

I just don;t have the energy to pursue litigation.

To your point @V.G Jason I think it's always good to stress test a portfolio in XLS and see how bad it has to get before it needs to be subsidized to stay afloat and weather a storm. 

If there's a hole, it may be a red flag.b) sensitivity analysis: I examine all the assumptions, and make sure I can live with the worst case scenarios.c) "Stall and see": if they are getting money over multiple years, and there is no penalty for investing later, I would usually wait so I get some real performance data, versus having to look at theoretical pro forma information.d) Recession stress test: I will not invest in anything, until I subject it to recession level stress and see if I can live with the result.

Or how do you just 'take it on the chin' when sh*t happens? 

That's really expensive, scary, and stressful.

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Than I thought it was all the things that could go wrong in the flip, hidden gems like K&T hidden in the walls, shot main-lines, etc.....   

Yes, it sucks we have to pay these people when they've hijacked my mom's house for more than a year without paying even a cent, but it's a huge sigh of relief for my mom, my siblings, and I, who have stressed over this for all of last year.

Sometimes letting them do their thing can save so much time and stress!