My notice mentioned restraining any pets, so no one gets hurt.  

Please PM me if you feel sensitive posting information here. 

My partner, who is female was going to be meeting the person(s) alone, and for her safety we requested a snapshot of an ID with sensitive information redacted to protect their privacy.  

One by one they all got restraining orders on him.

We are a HML as well and while I agree with the above, that the specific property itself will be underwritten and is collateral based, there are some time sensitive advantages to establishing a relationship prior to locating a property.

I am very sensitive to not keeping a guy like that busy because he needs and deserves it. 

This is rather time-sensitive so I would really appreciate your input.

We've enjoyed taking our time restoring old homes with an upscale historically sensitive focus.

Additionally, vacation rentals is a very sensitive issue here in Honolulu these days.

Figure a "commitment fee" makes sense, and then it's probably reduced from overall "underwriting fee", or something to that effect.I guess I am grouping the grotesque upfront fees ($500-$1,000-$2,000, etc) with the lower commitment fees in my sensitivities, which is probably wrong.