If you actually took the time out to read the OP, you'd know this and other pieces of information you've consistently needed clarification on. 

Ive said this house needs a second bath right from the start and have gotten nowhere(even the realtor said it needed one), the biggest problem I see in this scenario  is that I really wanted and needed someone who has done many of these with the mindset of the investor/REIA  to walk me through, not my dear hubby who although very talented in what he is capable of doing isn't very good at organization, timeliness, of follow through, therefore he has now quit on me and Im stuck trying to learn AND figure this out and not lose my shirt in the process.I had my realtor walk through the job with me and try and help refocus me but I really even need the financial piece played out at this point .

I am in contract to purchase a piece of land which is in a developing area and now zoned commercial.

-do you have to go find the pieces?

I'd like to pay off my equity note right away, but it's not an urgent need, as long as buyer's payments cover my monthly nut ($250 equity loan, $300 taxes, $75 HOA).This seems like a puzzle to me - all the pieces are on the table, I just can't see how to fit them all together to complete the task.

I just post on Craigslist, it's free  As far as syncing goes, I just use a piece of poster board as a calendar. 

With the real estate market what it is today, I feel like I could better maximize my investment by exchanging into a business verses another residential or commercial piece of real estate.

My Fiance' and I just bought our home in Las Vegas using our VA Home Loan and let me tell you; piece of cake!

If there is room for more than one structure on the subdivision, allow the builder to sell them off in pieces and pay you in increments. 

I don't want to carry a note forever (love the idea of the income, but I need the cash for other projects), but I'm willing to do it for a year or two.This seems like a puzzle to me - all the pieces are on the table, I just can't see how to fit them all together to complete the task.