My lawyer may have some suggestions.As for paying her some money to go away, I thought of that option as well up until the time she sent me the email telling me I had no authority to request this information and that she has the right to privacy and so do her guests.

You will need those to communicate with the lender...i.e. getting a payoff authorization when you go to sell. 

You do not have authority to pull credit on the borrower.  

If you had had a discussion at lease signing that was recent about no mods without written authorization, i would not renew. if the guy acts like its his house and he should be able to do whatever he wants and that you can pay when he messes up, i would not renew. its interesting he had you come out while the compressor hookup was in plain view.

(hanging your license)The Brokerage needs to be a HUD authorized Brokerage, and you need to sign up, using THEIR credentials.

Hey, Came across this in my reading - can't verify that all of the numbers are correct, but it seems like a good place to start for a list of limitations by state: http://www.walkawayfromdebt.com/worksheets&charts/...It's not my original work, so credit to the author.

But remember, Courts and Bar authorities will INFER based on the homeowner's statement, not necessarily on what actually took place.  

What happens with that 2nd group is dependent upon what kind of actual power & authority you have behind you.

Then you can defer to higher authority for the final decision - "well, let me call my partner and see if we can make that happen".

I would like to be able to tell a seller with authority of such specific conditions to give me the upper hand in negotiations.