Then shortly thereafter the same person called both my partner and myself and said that my Multifamily Mindset coach had called her and was trying to “squeeze into a deal we were working and was asking how much value are we actually bringing and was trying to convince her to remove people from the deal”.

- Good source to find reputable and experienced small multifamily builders once we firm up a specific market?

I guarantee your life would be so much better if you removed her and replaced her with a good renter.Do yourself a favor: buy "Every Landlord's Legal Guide" by NOLO.

the guy told me they are a sister company of another big firm (forgot the name)  that they wanted to appeal to this new generations  the terms sound very interesting,, where do you think we can fing more info on them?

Removing the emotion is a skill that is learned and gets easier over time.

You need a firm estimate for the remainder of the work as your funds are limited (like most people who don't have an endless amount of money). 

But ABNB felt so 'authoritarian' (once again for lack of a better word)....including stuff like removing my SuperHost status for a mistake of their own and not reinstating it once I proved them wrong. 

Check and reset them daily to remove the dead ones and reset the traps.Poison is easier and works well, but the mice die somewhere in the house and you may have an odor problem for a week or two.

This will allow you to remove the person and do the financing on your own.Home Equity Loan/Line of Credit: Since you're looking to access equity, a home equity loan or line of credit (HELOC) can be a good option.

I am also involved in management at one of the largest STR property management firms in Cashiers.