But I also recommend finding a younger commercial lender to sit with at those banks and not just anyone (you can usually find lenders on the banks/credit unions website or linkedin).

Hey guys, I am fairly new to the REI world and am currently employed through a direct lender that provides fast, specialized financing for business needs, real estate investment and refinancing of high rate loans.I have been pretty active by going to events around here (NYC) as well as engaging with other professionals in the field via LinkedIn but have not found many people who needs jumbo alt doc loans.

Somebody posted this video on linkedin.

That means LinkedIn profile that identifies you as an investor, perhaps with your ask in 3(3) above as the description; a custom email address (custom email addresses only cost a few bucks); and, if you are very serious, a simple landing page for your investment business, with your contact information and the kind of property you are looking for.  

I also have a LinkedIn group that I invite you to join to learn more about crowdfunding: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/Real-Estate-Crowdfunding-Education-Networking-6710756/about ( I hope that's ok to post per BP rules; I'm not trying steal anyone off this amazing community!)

I am active on Facebook and LinkedIn.  

Most folks are already on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and LinkedIn, so don't forget about those platforms. 

Connect with agents on LinkedIn in your areaYou'll find someone. 

Best bet: Continue to develop a relationship with their broker and do some LinkedIn/Google searches to see who is on the investment team at this REIT.

Added you on Facebook and LinkedIn