If you would've followed your own advise that appreciation is a bonus and cash flow is king then you would've never bought that property and you'd be a poorer man for it today, but you were smart enough to put your money where your mouth isn't.

let me make sure I understand exactly what your saying without putting words in your mouth, If I DO NOT buy from the bank I'm not consider a BIG league investor?

Having a high deductible is a way to put your money where your mouth is and show you have confidence in your property. 5.

Furthermore, a case for fraud requires someone to lie in the first place; keeping your mouth shut is the easiest way to avoid the issue.In theory, a lender could sue you, the buyer, for inducing the seller/borrower to breach his mortgage agreement (called "tortious interference with contract").

You've actually put your money where your mouth is and took the risk to put yourself out there. 

It'll be easier for you to just work with a realtor, but if you hate realtors with a passion then showing the seller you're serious and can put money where your mouth is is a good start. 

6) Are there any GP's willing to take an aspiring syndicator under their guidance in exchange for the fee that the partner GP would get...I dont even know if that legal...kind of a put your money where your mouth is instead of some 20k dollar mentor class...if that makes since

here:https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/223/topics/43...You really put your money where your mouth is!

Somewhere along the line someone invented a religion wherein you don't make babies, you eat lots of rotting meat, you don't drink any water, you don't convert others into your faith, and if anyone near you has an infectious disease you ask them to sneeze directly into your mouth.

I'm confusedAnd that's where the forums get irritating... when people try and put words into your mouth.