It is important to respect their time and add value in return to them!

Be polite and respectful, but don't let him think that he gets to have a say on how you run your business.

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So I respectfully disagree with your statement telling me what my operating assumptions are.

@Grant Rothenburger I'll respectfully disagree.  

If you do your research and know what you are talking about, you will get a lot more respect from the developers.

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Converting the property from a single rental unit (2 bed, 2.5 bath) 1,900 sq ft cabin that sleeps 11 to 2 separate units (1 bed 1.5 bath & studio apt) that sleeps 5 and 6 respectively.

Give an old women her dignity and respect her wishes.

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