I am trying my best to take everything into account, but there is no doubt things I don't know.

Hi There @Chinelo Ononye - Don't be afraid to keep investing here in the Windy City if it's your home lolWe've got an awesome real estate community here in Chicago and would be happy to connect to see how we can help.Generational wealth is an amazing aspiration and there is no doubt you are the "one" in your family that is going to make that change.  

It’s doubtful you had a hud/fha insured loan for $20k (with accumulated fees, penalties,etc) that they missed.

I doubt you’re going to get a stranger to take a $250k hit for you. ”So  your friend has to tell the IRS he lost $900k and ask for a $250k tax refund.

I hope it gets better, but I doubt it will in the near future.

From everything that I have been able to find, HUD does not forgive or back down, my mortgage company so far appears to be unwilling to back off the price, I doubt the buyer is willing to come up on their offer and I feel I am faced with 3 options: 1) I let the sale proceed and end up with no money, owing money, and no where to go, 2) The buyer proceeds to sue for the property because I signed a commitment to sell, I will end up with no way to relocate my family and nowhere to go, or 3) the home goes to auction and again, no way to relocate and nowhere to go.

There is a lot of grey area on this site, as there is on most sites, and in the interest of wanting to be fair to posters and not be ridiculously heavy handed, most mods will give posters the benefit of the doubt on the front end, maybe with removing a post and a warning or something similar.

I doubt they were just dumb.

I have no doubt he can teach people how to do Burrrs and flips that are very profitable but of such low quality that it puts a stain on the industry.

I doubt congress envisioned people self-managing multiple single-door motels on the side while holding down a full-time job.