In most municipalities approvals have a few year shelf life and in the event new regulations or new zoning bills are passed you could lose the benefit of the in place zoning/development procedures.

This article outlines the benefits of alternative financing to support struggling but fundamentally sound projects and discusses the current market conditions and trends in mezzanine and preferred equity investments.Market ContextIn July 2024, the distress rate for multifamily properties securitized with CMBS financing rose by 100 basis points to 8.4%, continuing a trend of increased distress across the sector.

I think it wouldn't hurt if you were to reach out to an insurance adjuster that works on behalf of the homeowner.

I also estimate that, after accounting for a 10% vacancy, I could rent the property for about $1,800 per month.Even with that ($400) cash flow, I still feel like I’d be better off than where I am now, between the experience I’d gain, the equity I’d build, and the appreciation and tax benefits.

If it's not adjusted correctly there won't be enough water to flush everything down. 

It’s worth weighing that against the benefits of accessing that equity for future investments.Since you’re considering DSCR loans, that could be a strong option, especially if you’re focused on rental income covering the mortgage—no personal income or DTI requirements needed not to mention the easy qualificaiton process compared to conventional.

Options are to take out a loan for the 25% and just purchase or co-sign a multifamily or just co-sign on a SFH so they can get the 5% down, no loan needed, there wouldn't be any real benefit to me and my husband as we would be assuming the debt but we would be helping our kids out. 

Can Seller Financing Benefit the SELLER?

These provide stability and regular income, which can be crucial in retirement.Cash: 5-10%Keep some liquid assets for emergencies and short-term needs.Consider these additional points:Diversification: Spread your investments across different sectors and geographic regions to reduce risk.Tax efficiency: Consider the tax implications of your investment strategy, especially with your high net worth.Regular rebalancing: Adjust your portfolio periodically to maintain your desired asset allocation.Professional advice: Given your high net worth, it's advisable to consult with a financial advisor who can provide personalized recommendations based on your specific situation and goals.Risk management: Consider your risk tolerance and adjust the allocation accordingly.