@Erik HatchYes, you can rollover Traditional IRA into 401K.

Did you do so under the rollover business startup plan (ROBS)?

@Carol,I agree with the other posters that you should publish the name of the company so the marketplace can punish them for their ineptness by not doing business with them.What you are describing has a foundation in actual compliance, but sounds quite out of line, and their unwillingness to work closely with you to resolve the problem is entirely unacceptable.A pension rollover should not require a statement.  

From my experience, Vanguard is very efficient with the transfer/rollover, so focus on getting your ducks in a row on the SDIRA side, get your account created, and then transfer the $$ when you're ready. 

Thats a loaded question..You kind of need to work backwards starting with the length of your rollover cycle. 93 days seems to be a good number.

Otherwise I will let it roll over to the VM.

Then just before for housing market started to roll over in late 2006, her bank refused to let her refinance yet again and she was forced to sell.Regardless of the equity they have in their homes, when too many motivated sellers enter the market because of layoffs in the area, house prices come under pressure.

If your income exceeds the Roth IRA income threshold limits, and you already have Traditional IRA accounts, I recommend transferring the IRAs into your current 401(k) Plan(s), assuming incoming rollovers are allowed.

In addition, instead of withdrawal, why not do a 401K rollover into an IRA which is tax free. 

In IT, nobody is building datacenters (small players) anymore everything is just about to rollover to infrastructure as a service.