I've been investing here in Columbus alongside many other other investors and have seen both growth and cashflow. 

that go with that/group of necessaries form/found becaused to) living in/on our property, OR founding/forming a residential care facility for elderly (i don't really get what the difference is btwn the 2 dwellings bcs i would expedite either as: non-medical: household management of operations-having agencies come in and do/multi task, of things-alongside helping mom have care..having agenting help with household actions (a human swiss army knife-springs to mind-as to how resourceful/vast in skills i'd look for her to be expediting for us) i hope that i'm making sense/being congruent with what i'm asking. can you help me?

I hope to have a million in debt by 30 but along side that I plan on having 100k in 401k and 25k in cash sitting there..just in case.

Cap rates, location, and understanding the cost per door alongside your mechanicals and capex is going to be key when buying multi-family. 

I would also say look at numbers of how much property value in the area has increased in the past 5 years or so, so you can get an understanding of appreciation alongside the cashflow of your investment property.

When they are gambling on a completed project, they want to know a battle tested captain is at or along side the wheel. 

And then if you're going to do the rehab process and hire the contractor, draft the scope of work, be available at any time during the day to deal with hiccups, that gets really time consuming. 

All it takes is one little hiccup in life and they will stop paying rent, then it may take months for you to wake up and start the eviction, then additional months for you to actually evict, then months to find a new renter.2.

I can't wait to get started and grow alongside all of you!

We tried to get info on the lender to ask directly but they wouldn't give it to us.I would have thought this would be a relatively quick process to do a credit check, check debt to income, employer verification, etc.current loan's interest rate is very low so they definitely haven't refinanced anytime recently.Additionally, having never assumed a loan before, anything I should keep an eye out for that might cause a hiccup?